Single PMM Digital Course

For you, evaluating on your own.

If marriage is the intention, what does the
evidence actually support?

Dating gives you experiences. It does not automatically give you clarity.

You can spend months — or years — with someone and still have information, feelings, conversations, and memories without a disciplined way to determine what they actually mean for marriage.

The Single PMM Digital Course gives you a structured relationship-evaluation process for learning what you know, what you have assumed, what remains unknown, and what the evidence actually supports.

“Clarity is not a feeling. It is a conclusion.”

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The Problem

The problem is not always a lack of information.

It is the lack of a disciplined way to separate what happened, what you felt, what you assumed, what the evidence supports, what remains unknown, and what matters enough to affect a marriage decision.

The course does not choose for you. It teaches you how to evaluate.

THE COST OF THE DECISION

Choosing a Marriage Mate is not only a relationship decision.

It is a decision about your home, finances, children, family, responsibilities, and future.

The cost of insufficient clarity can extend beyond the relationship.

Attorneys and court proceedings.

Separate households.

Divided finances and property. Parenting schedules and child-support obligations.

Children adjusting to decisions made by the adults around them.

Major commitments can also come before marriage. Your relationship can become emotionally, financially, and sexually committed before you determine whether the two of you are aligned for marriage. Children may be conceived, creating lifelong parenting responsibilities even if the relationship does not lead to marriage.

The Marriage Mates™ cannot guarantee a marriage outcome. It gives you a structured process to ask, observe, evaluate, and decide before commitment.

A Structured Way to Evaluate

The process guides you through self-awareness, questions, observation, reflection, Marriage Alignment, Decision Checkpoints, Confirmation, and Agreement.

Know what you are evaluating for.
Separate Observation, Interpretation, Assumption, and Conclusion.
Ask clearer initial and follow-up questions.
Compare what a PMM says with what they consistently do over time.
Identify what is Known and what remains Unknown.
Evaluate the major areas that affect a shared life.
Pause at Decision Checkpoints instead of allowing time invested or relationship momentum to make the decision.

Bring the evidence together before Confirmation.

Your Progress Is Measurable

By the end of 15 modules, 60 core sessions, a Beginning Transformation Assessment, and a four-session
Capstone, you will have:

Worked through the structured evaluation process.
Defined your values, standards, expectations, Non-Negotiables, Deal Breakers, boundaries, areas of growth, and what you bring to a marriage.
Separated observations from assumptions.
Asked questions relevant to a potential marriage.
Compared words with behavior.
Identified Marriage Alignment across the areas that affect a shared life.
Documented what you Know, what remains Unknown, and what requires further clarity.
Worked through the Decision Checkpoints.
Reached your own informed conclusion about whether there is enough clarity for Confirmation.

The Course

Fifteen Modules. Sixty Core Sessions. One Clear Decision.

Plus a Beginning Transformation Assessment and a four-session Capstone.

Sixty-five total course sessions.

No session over 20 minutes.

15 modules
60 core sessions
1 Beginning Transformation Assessment
4 Capstone sessions
65 total course sessions
No session over 20 minutes

WHAT YOU WILL COMPLETE

This is not a course you simply watch.

Across the complete course, you will work through:

15 structured modules.

60 core sessions.

1 Beginning Transformation Assessment.

4 Capstone sessions.

15 private exercises.

15 case analyses.

15 model analyses and self-scoring rubrics.

15 self-check quizzes.

15 entries in Your Marriage Alignment Record.

The complete 20-step Marriage Mates™ Framework.

At the beginning, you document how you currently think about dating, Marriage Alignment, assumptions, evidence, and important decisions.

At the end, you answer the same questions again before reviewing your original responses.

The comparison allows you to identify what changed, what remained the same, what you understand more clearly, and what you will do differently.

Your progress is not based only on how you feel at the end.

It is documented.

THE INVESTMENT BEFORE THE COMMITMENT

Invest in clarity before commitment.

Invest the money.

Invest the time.

The cost of this course is known.

The cost of entering a marriage without sufficient clarity may reach into your time, finances, home, children, responsibilities, and future.

The investment is not simply in completing a course.

It is in giving one of the most consequential decisions of your life the time and evaluation it deserves.

15 MODULES.

60 CORE SESSIONS.

1 BEGINNING TRANSFORMATION ASSESSMENT.

4 CAPSTONE SESSIONS.

65 TOTAL COURSE SESSIONS.

NO SESSION LONGER THAN 20 MINUTES.

Maximum time for all scheduled course sessions: approximately 21 hours and 40 minutes.

Additional time may be needed for reflection, Workbook exercises, observation, conversations, and Decision Checkpoints.

YOUR COMPLETION PLAN

1 SESSION A DAY
20 minutes or less
Approximately 65 days

2 SESSIONS A DAY

40 minutes or less
Approximately 33 days

3 SESSIONS A DAY
60 minutes or less
Approximately 22 days

Choose your pace. Commit to it. Complete the process.

What Is Included

The Complete Single PMM Experience

The framework.

The place to do the work.

The guided process that brings them together.

The Marriage Mates™ Book

The 20-Step Marriage Evaluation Framework.

The Marriage Mates™ Workbook

Structured reflection, documentation, and application of the framework.