Couples PMM Digital Course
For both of you, evaluating together. Work individually. Evaluate together.
How do both of you evaluate the same potential marriage without losing your individual judgment?
You can both talk about marriage without actually evaluating marriage together.
You may love each other, know each other’s families, and have spent years together — while important parts of married life remain unevaluated.
The Couples PMM Digital Course gives both of you a structured way to find out what each person actually thinks, where you align, where you differ, and what still requires clarity.
“Work individually. Evaluate together.”
The Problem
Money. Children. Family. Faith and worldview. Responsibilities. Where you will live. Communication. Boundaries. Expectations. The life you are actually agreeing to build.
You can discuss marriage and still leave those areas unclear.
And you can believe you agree simply because neither of you has asked the question carefully enough.
The central problem is not whether you care about each other. It is whether you have a structure for
evaluating the same potential marriage without allowing time invested, chemistry, or assumption to make
the decision for you.
THE COST OF THE DECISION
Choosing a Marriage Mate is not only a relationship decision.
It is a decision about your home, finances, children, family, responsibilities, and future.
For two people considering marriage, the question is not whether you care about each other. It is whether you have evaluated the same potential marriage with enough clarity to make your own informed decisions.
The cost of insufficient clarity can extend beyond the relationship.
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Attorneys and court proceedings.
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Separate households.
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Divided finances and property.
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Parenting schedules and child-support obligations.
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Children adjusting to decisions made by the adults around them.
Major commitments can also come before marriage. Emotional, financial, sexual, and parenting responsibilities can deepen before alignment has been determined.
The Marriage Mates™ cannot guarantee a marriage outcome. It gives both of you a structured process to evaluate before commitment.
Work Individually. Evaluate Together.
Before the shared conversations, each of you has private work to do. The objective is not to manufacture
agreement. It is to discover whether agreement actually exists.
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Think first.
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Answer for yourself.
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Then come together.
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Compare what each of you believes.
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Ask. Listen. Observe.
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Identify Alignment, differences, and Unknowns.
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Determine what the available evidence means for the marriage being considered.
Private thinking comes first because one person's answer can influence the other's. The private-first structure protects each of your individual judgments before comparison begins.
Not to make yourselves agree. To find out where you actually do.
Your Progress Is Measurable
By the end of the process, both of you will have:
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Identified your individual positions before comparing them.
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Separated agreement from assumption.
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Asked questions that uncover information rather than pressure agreement.
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Identified what you Know and what remains Unknown.
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Evaluated the areas that affect the life you are considering building together.
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Compared words with consistent behavior.
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Identified where you align and where you differ.
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Worked through the Marriage Mates™ Decision Checkpoints.
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Brought the evidence together before Confirmation.
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Made your own individual informed decisions about what the available evidence supports and
whether there is enough clarity for Confirmation.
The Course
Fifteen Modules. Seventy-Five Sessions.
Work individually. Evaluate together.
This is not two Single PMM courses packaged together. The added value is the structured interaction between two people: private individual reasoning first, followed by deliberate shared evaluation.
15 modules
75 sessions
2 individual logins
Regular price: $997
Pre-order price: $697
Pre-order savings: $300
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Each of the 15 modules follows the same five-session structure:
1. LEARN
Understand the principle and how it applies to Marriage Alignment.
2. WORK INDIVIDUALLY
Identify your own position before hearing or being influenced by the other person’s answer.
3. SHARE AND COMPARE
Bring your individual positions together and identify where you align, where you differ, and what remains Unknown.
4. ANALYZE THE CASE
You each complete the case analysis individually before discussing it together.
5. CHECK AND CLOSE
Review the model analysis, complete the self-scoring rubric and quiz, address disagreement, and complete the Participation Checkpoint.
Across the complete course, both of you will work through:
15 modules.
75 structured sessions.
15 private exercises completed individually.
15 guided sharing sessions completed together.
15 case analyses written individually and discussed together.
15 model analyses and self-scoring rubrics.
15 self-check quizzes.
15 When You Disagree discussions.
15 Participation Checkpoints.
The purpose is not to make yourselves agree.
It is to identify where you actually do.
THE INVESTMENT BEFORE THE COMMITMENT
Invest in clarity before commitment.
Invest the money.
Invest the time.
The cost of this course is known.
The cost of two people entering a marriage without sufficient clarity may reach into both lives, both families, shared finances, children, responsibilities, and the future you are considering building together.
This course cannot decide whether you should marry or guarantee a marriage outcome.
It gives both of you a structured process to identify your individual positions, compare the available evidence, work through the Decision Checkpoints, and each reach your own informed conclusion before commitment.
The investment is not simply in completing a course together.
It is in giving the potential marriage you are evaluating the time and attention it deserves.
TWO PEOPLE.
TWO INDIVIDUAL PERSPECTIVES.
ONE POTENTIAL MARRIAGE BEING EVALUATED.
15 MODULES.
75 STRUCTURED SESSIONS.
FIVE SESSIONS PER MODULE.
NO SESSION LONGER THAN 20 MINUTES.
Maximum time for all scheduled course sessions: approximately 25 hours.
Additional time may be needed for private reflection, Workbook exercises, observation, conversations, and Decision Checkpoints.
Work individually.
Evaluate together.
YOUR COMPLETION PLAN
1 SESSION A DAY
20 minutes or less
Approximately 75 days
2 SESSIONS A DAY
40 minutes or less
Approximately 38 days
3 SESSIONS A DAY
60 minutes or less
Approximately 25 days
Some sessions are completed individually.
Some sessions are completed together.
Choose a pace that allows both people to complete the individual work before beginning the shared evaluation.
What Is Included
The Complete Couples PMM Experience
Two people. Two sets of materials. Two individual perspectives. One structured evaluation process.
2 copies of The Marriage Mates™ Book
The 20-Step Marriage Evaluation Framework — one for each person.
2 copies of The Marriage Mates™ Workbook
Each person has their own space for reflection, documentation, and application.
2 individual course logins
Each person works through the process individually before the framework brings both perspectives together for shared evaluation.
75 structured sessions
Private reasoning first. Deliberate shared evaluation follows.
The books establish the framework.
The workbooks give each person their own space to do the work.
The course guides both people through when to work individually and when to evaluate together.
Together, they form the complete Couples PMM experience.
Two People. Two Perspectives. One Marriage Being Evaluated.
Work individually. Evaluate together.
Clarity before commitment.
Alignment before “I Do.”
Includes 2 Books, 2 Workbooks, 2 individual course logins, and the structured Couples PMM course experience. 15 modules | 75 sessions