Single PMM Digital Course
For the person evaluating on their own.
If marriage is the intention, what does the evidence actually support?.
Dating gives you experiences. It does not automatically give you clarity.
You can spend months — or years — with someone and still have information, feelings, conversations, and memories without a disciplined way to determine what they actually mean for marriage.
The Single PMM Digital Course gives you a structured relationship-evaluation process for learning what you know, what you have assumed, what remains unknown, and what the evidence actually supports
“Clarity is not a feeling. It is a conclusion.”
The Problem
The problem is not always a lack of information.
It is the lack of a disciplined way to separate what happened, what you felt, what you assumed, what the evidence supports, what remains unknown, and what matters enough to affect a marriage decision.
The course does not choose for you. It teaches you how to evaluate.
THE COST OF THE DECISION
Choosing a Marriage Mate is not only a relationship decision.
It is a decision about your home, finances, children, family, responsibilities, and future.
The cost of insufficient clarity can extend beyond the relationship.
Attorneys and court proceedings.
Separate households.
Divided finances and property. Parenting schedules and child-support obligations.
Children adjusting to decisions made by the adults around them.
Major commitments can also come before marriage. A relationship can become emotionally, financially, and sexually committed before two people determine whether they are aligned for marriage. Children may be conceived, creating lifelong parenting responsibilities even if the relationship does not lead to marriage.
The Marriage Mates™ cannot guarantee a marriage outcome. It gives you a structured process to ask, observe, evaluate, and decide before commitment.
A Structured Way to Evaluate
The process guides you through self-awareness, questions, observation, reflection, Marriage Alignment, Decision Checkpoints, Confirmation, and Agreement.
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Know what you are evaluating for.
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Separate Observation, Interpretation, Assumption, and Conclusion.
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Ask clearer initial and follow-up questions.
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Compare what a PMM says with what they consistently do over time.
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Identify what is Known and what remains Unknown.
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Evaluate the major areas that affect a shared life.
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Pause at Decision Checkpoints instead of allowing time invested or relationship momentum to make the decision.
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Bring the evidence together before Confirmation.
The framework provides structure. You remain responsible for the decision.
Your Progress Is Measurable
By the end of 15 modules and 60 sessions, you will have:
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Worked through the structured evaluation process.
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Defined your values, standards, expectations, Non-Negotiables, Deal Breakers, boundaries, areas of growth, and what you bring to a marriage.
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Separated observations from assumptions.
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Asked questions relevant to a potential marriage.
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Compared words with behavior.
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Identified Marriage Alignment across the areas that affect a shared life.
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Documented what you Know, what remains Unknown, and what requires further clarity.
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Worked through the Decision Checkpoints.
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Reached your own informed conclusion about whether there is enough clarity for Confirmation.
The framework provides structure. You remain responsible for the decision.
The Course
Fifteen Modules. Sixty Sessions. One Clear Decision.
Clarity does not require manufactured certainty. The process helps you determine what the available evidence supports — including when more information is still needed.
No session over 20 minutes.
This is not a collection of relationship videos. It is a guided relationship-evaluation system designed to help you gather evidence, evaluate Marriage Alignment, and make your own informed marriage decision.
La preparación financiera no se trata de riqueza. Se trata de claridad. Mucho antes del compromiso, los hábitos, expectativas y responsabilidades financieras ya se están formando. Ignorarlos no retrasa el impacto. Lo agrava. Esta página presenta recursos relacionados con la conciencia financiera, la transparencia y la planificación a largo plazo durante las citas. El propósito no es instrucción ni recomendación. Es visibilidad temprana. La claridad en este ámbito promueve la equidad, la responsabilidad compartida y la toma de decisiones informada antes de la vida.
se combinan.
THE INVESTMENT BEFORE THE COMMITMENT
You are preparing to make a consequential decision. Give the evaluation the time it deserves.
15 MODULES. 60 SESSIONS. NO SESSION OVER 20 MINUTES.
Maximum instructional session time: approximately 20 hours.
Additional time is needed for reflection, Workbook exercises, observation, conversations, and Decision Checkpoints.
YOUR COMPLETION PLAN
1 SESSION A DAY — 20 minutes or less — approximately 60 days.
2 SESSIONS A DAY — 40 minutes or less — approximately 30 days.
3 SESSIONS A DAY — 60 minutes or less — approximately 20 days.
Choose your pace. Commit to it. Complete the process.
What Is Included
The Complete Single PMM Experience
The framework.
The place to do the work.
The guided process that brings them together.
The Marriage Mates™ Book
The 20-Step Marriage Evaluation Framework.
The Marriage Mates™ Workbook
Structured reflection, documentation, and application of the framework.
Single PMM Digital Course
15 modules and 60 guided sessions that walk you through the evaluation process.
The book gives you the framework.
The workbook gives you the space and structure to apply it.
The digital course guides you through the process.
Together, they form the complete Single PMM experience.
Clarity Before Commitment
You do not need the course to tell you who to marry.
You need a process that helps you evaluate what you are actually learning before you make that decision.
Learn. Observe. Evaluate. Decide
Pre-Order — $297 | Regular Price: $497 | Access opens November 2, 2026
Includes The Marriage Mates™ Book, Workbook, and Single PMM Digital Course.